ess said:
Snort! A thank you note? That's rich.
tjohn said:
Amidst all the conjecture, the one point almost everybody accepts is that this case had no business coming before a judge when it did. And for that reason alone, I would find it hard to thank the Inglesinos. Now, if turns out that the Inglesinos worked tirelessly to resolve the rupture between Rachel and her parents non-judicially before going to court, I might think differently.
ridski said:
tjohn said:
Amidst all the conjecture, the one point almost everybody accepts is that this case had no business coming before a judge when it did. And for that reason alone, I would find it hard to thank the Inglesinos. Now, if turns out that the Inglesinos worked tirelessly to resolve the rupture between Rachel and her parents non-judicially before going to court, I might think differently.
And if that's the case, I would be happier if everything going forward continued outside of the public eye. With all parties never to be heard from again.
mapletree said:
My way or the highway is bad parenting in many cases. And we cannot discount yet that there may have been other issues in addition to house rules applicable to all family members.
Yes, but are these kids kissed on the cheek?adifferentone said:
mapletree said:
My way or the highway is bad parenting in many cases. And we cannot discount yet that there may have been other issues in addition to house rules applicable to all family members.
It may be bad parenting, but it is not child abuse or illegal. If the child is over 18 and wants to emancipate herself to avoid her parents' draconian rules, she is more than welcome to do so.
There are all kids of parents out there. My own kids have friends who aren't allowed to watch TV or play video games. Others are allowed no sweets or unhealthy snacks. One of my niece's friends is not allowed to have a boyfriend until college (they are in HS now) and is not allowed to attend any after school event that is not academic, so no parties, football games, etc. Do all these kids have the right to find a new family and sue the old one for support? Because they had "bad" unreasonable parents?
You used to lick your fingers to clean my face when I was a kid. If that doesn't count as child abuse then I don't know what does. >:pScully said:
Kissed on the cheek? The horror!!!
mapletree said:
I am glad Rachel had a place to stay. Proved she is not such an intractable rebel who chose the highway over her parents' way.
Hopefully she will be able to modify her life around her parents' demands. She only has a few months to wait and tgen it's off to college and I hope it's Vermont so visits will not be frequent.
I also hope her parents learn something from this episode in which they played a major part, pay the bills and help their daughters.
It would be nice if they sent Mr. Inglesino a thank you note. He kept their girl in school and off the streets.
In MOL terms, he found a cat in the street, gave it shelter and returned it to the owner.
yahooyahoo said:
Hello? Anyone? The girl moved back home.
TarheelsInNj said:
ess said:
I just read that Rachel Canning returned to her parents' house.
http://www.nj.com/morris/index.ssf/2014/03/nj_teen_who_sued_parents_is_going_home.html
yahooyahoo said:
Hello? Anyone? The girl moved back home.
mapletree said:
Yes. Tens of thousands of girls do just that. Many of them end up on the street, drugged and earning money for their protectors.
mapletree said:
I do not know why she felt her father's holding her and kissing her in public was a big deal. She probably had to interpret it that way to defend herself from all the bad stuff her parents were saying about her.
But even kisses on the cheek can look sexual in some cases.
And a six year old boy in Colorado was suspended from school for repeatedly kissing a little girl in the cheek.
ess said:
Wait, the kid's lawyer said this:
"Helfand, who specializes in family law, said the court never determined if Rachel was emancipated or not.
“A psychologist certified that the parents are abusive. School faculty certified that the parents abuse the child,” she wrote."
And they're OK with sending her back home? Something smells bad here.
mumstheword said:
Lawyers don't always tell the truth, especially to the press.....
PeggyC said:
Abuse is a pretty inflammatory word for Rachel's lawyer to be using, though, don't you think?? And I'm kind of stunned that Rachel has gone home, but the lawsuit continues. WTF?
Tom_Reingold said:
I consider calling your daughter fat and porky to be abusive, especially if it is part of a pattern.
PeggyC said:
Abuse is a pretty inflammatory word for Rachel's lawyer to be using, though, don't you think?? And I'm kind of stunned that Rachel has gone home, but the lawsuit continues. WTF?
Tom_Reingold said:
I consider calling your daughter fat and porky to be abusive, especially if it is part of a pattern.
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