phenixrising said:
So sad that this situation did not go through a mediator before going to court and out in public.
You think?pmartinezv said:
As a parent, my obligation to care for my offspring, legally, ends at 18yrs of age.
Morristown family law attorney Edward O’Donnell, who has represented public figures and a woman who sued former Pittsburgh Steeler Dave Meggett for child support, said social media has created the frenzy of interest, besides the unusual aspects of the case.
O’Donnell said that New Jersey case law does require parents who are financially capable to support their children and pay for college if the children are “within the sphere of parental influence” and are dependent on them for support.
http://www.app.com/article/20140304/NJNEWS10/303040065/NJ-student-suing-parents-draws-media-maelstrom
RobB said:
Any one of my divorced uncles will gladly (and I do mean gladly) tell you all about how "that goddamned judge" made them pay the college tuition of their adult children.
I could arrange a teleconference. My personal favorite is the uncle who was stuck paying child support to his ex-wife for all three kids until the youngest turned 22 (or maybe it was 23? 25? Who knows). The oldest was like 30 at that point.ParticleMan said:
Any in the area? I'm not planning to hit Boston at Christmas. ;-)
Oldstone said:
I had a somewhat similar experience with my own parents. I was going to start college in Boston the September following my high school graduation. They refused to pay for me to live in Boston when I could commute and save the money. I refused to commute. They kicked me out, with tears in their eyes. I moved next door to my best friend's basement for the summer and then went on my way, all by myself, without anyone's help except scholarships. Worked while I went to school, paid for my own everything, tuition, apartment, everything. I never looked back. I guess that's not so easy these days. The times, they are different.
new207040 said:
sad on all levels as this will effect their relationship for a very long time, short sighted teenage decision making and all for what appears to be puppy love with a bad boy and teenage rebellion..
new207040 said:
sad on all levels as this will effect their relationship for a very long time, short sighted teenage decision making and all for what appears to be puppy love with a bad boy and teenage rebellion..I am sure there are many adults who would want to chat with this girl about decisions they made and regret at this age.....she just won't listen
gibberellin said:
new207040 said:
sad on all levels as this will effect their relationship for a very long time, short sighted teenage decision making and all for what appears to be puppy love with a bad boy and teenage rebellion..
If you choose to have children, then one day you will have a teenager making short sighted decisions and teenage rebellion. Anyone who thinks otherwise is kidding themselves. Part of normal parenting is negotiating your way through this situation without throwing the kid out of the house for acting like what he/she is: a teenager.
pmartinezv said:
It sounds to me like just another victim of afluenza...
mjh said:
Most colleges will not accept an 18 year old with living parents as an "emancipated minor" when it comes to paying tuition.
conandrob240 said:
Cutting off her high school funding is a little harsh regardless of what she did. Although 18, she is finishing her senior year in high school, for crying out loud. If I had a disagreement with my parents, nothing I could do would make them cut off high school tuition. Would they prefer she be a high-school drop-out and be even more of a financial burden in the future? She might very well have a case for compelling them to finish paying her high school. I don't think she has much leg to stand on for the college tuition though. Unless the funds for her college are in her name or specifically earmarked for her (529?)
pmartinezv said:
I am sorry but she has access to education at the public high school. Her parents are not 'required' to pay her private tuition. If they encountered financial hardship for whatever reason, rather than having a dispute, would you still be advocating that they must pay her tuition? No, she would simply enroll in the public system and finish there.
Personally, I think parents do too much for their childre and let them get away with everything (myself included). We need to teach kids that if you want to be treated with respect, you need to respect your parents and their rules. I got into a dispute with my parents while in college over money. They decided that since I was not being grateful for their assistance and 'demanded' more, I should learn to provide for my own education and related expenses. It was a very tough year, but I learn to take care of myself. Yes I worked 2 jobs and went to school full time. It was not fun, but I did it. It took me many years to pay off the student loans. I was upset at the situation initially, but it was not their obligation to to pay my way, particularly when my sister had just enrolled in college as well. I was selfish and childish and couldn't see past my own needs and failed to realize that they were in financial trouble and were having issues paying for two tuitions as it was. Sometimes parents have to use tough love to teach kids values.
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So sad that this situation did not go through a mediator before going to court and out in public.