tjohn said:
mammabear said:
And I think it's so sad that this thing has gotten SOOOO out of control. The family should have been in therapy, not a courtroom.
And for that, it seems like we can thank her friend's father. It seems that he helped push this into the courts.
phenixrising said:
tjohn said:
mammabear said:
And I think it's so sad that this thing has gotten SOOOO out of control. The family should have been in therapy, not a courtroom.
And for that, it seems like we can thank her friend's father. It seems that he helped push this into the courts.
+1.
phenixrising said:
tjohn said:
mammabear said:
And I think it's so sad that this thing has gotten SOOOO out of control. The family should have been in therapy, not a courtroom.
And for that, it seems like we can thank her friend's father. It seems that he helped push this into the courts.
+1. He not only embarrassed the parents, but her sisters included. Notice how the media ran with the story? Who approached the media? Let me guess…
And oh, he'll get reimbursed (the attorney's Father), by selling this story.
RobB said:
Not to mention that, unless she discovers a cure for AIDS or something, this will be the first Google result for her name, forever.
mjh said:
It's nice to know people can have such absolute clarity in their judgments when it comes to the the complexity of humans and human relationships.
calliope said:
mjh said:
It's nice to know people can have such absolute clarity in their judgments when it comes to the the complexity of humans and human relationships.
The daughter is the one who took this into the legal arena. At this point the issue is a legal one, and has little to do with "the complexity of...human relationships" , the judge's duty is not to explore such things, but to examine the facts that come before him,and rule on the law. The judge urged the family to seek counseling. If he seemed "judgmental" well, that is his job.
tjohn said:
The girl took this into the legal arena because she had either irresponsible or incompetent legal counsel. A good lawyer would have told her that this most likely wouldn't end well for her.
Tom_R said:
The e-mails posted above bear a signature in the lower left of each page of New Jersey Superior Court.gonets said:
How did that email become public? The girl sounds like a brat, but if the parents released it, their behavior is pretty tacky too.
marylago said:
tjohn said:
The girl took this into the legal arena because she had either irresponsible or incompetent legal counsel. A good lawyer would have told her that this most likely wouldn't end well for her.
If he was able to set precedent with this suit, it could have been a huge boon to his practice.
PeggyC said:
My eye was caught by a sentence in one of the articles linked above, which said that the girl had been under treatment, including counseling and medication. That made me wonder if her behavior could be due to a bipolar disorder or something similar, or even something worse. I've seen firsthand what borderline personality disorder can do to a family and how difficult and wrenching it is for parents and siblings to handle it. There could be much, much more to this than any of us are seeing in the stories and emails.
As others have pointed out, the friend's father is most definitely to blame for pushing this into the legal system and media spotlight. Shame on him.
PeggyC said:
Who knows is right. What a mess. I also read in another article that her college fund is accessible to her now, so her parents have no idea why she is making a legal fuss about THAT. I don't know if anyone will ever know exactly what is going on in that family.
tjohn said:
The girl took this into the legal arena because she had either irresponsible or incompetent legal counsel. A good lawyer would have told her that this most likely wouldn't end well for her.
kibbegirl said:
If I can find the statement I will post, but yesterday I read that the parents found trash bags of vomit in her room, I assume from her eating disorder. This girl has some issues and doesn't need to sue her parents but needs mental help.
TarheelsInNj said:
tjohn said:
The girl took this into the legal arena because she had either irresponsible or incompetent legal counsel. A good lawyer would have told her that this most likely wouldn't end well for her.
And a good father - father of her best friend, so presumably a close family member - would have pushed the family toward mediation or therapy or something else. I cannot for the life of me imagine why he would get personally involved in this way.
And for that, it seems like we can thank her friend's father. It seems that he helped push this into the courts.